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  1. Last night I had a dream about this boy that’s older by six or seven months. We only talked twice in real life and both times it went well ( for me at least). A week before my dream, he came into my drama rehearsals and his friend asked if I liked him and I said no, and now on my end I can feel this awkwardness between us. So, in the dream I went to a live performance of my friend’s show. It might have been ‘Miss Saigon’. So I’m sitting with my mum and brother in the third row and he’s sitting in the row opposite. He asks what I’m doing there and I say to see the show. He says “oh”, so I get back to watching the production. After Act 1, he’s sitting on the row in front of me and he asks me if I want to sit with him. My brother steps in and starts being like no, she doesn’t know you, i won’t let her sit with you. Basically very protective. So I say, well I’m kind of here with my family. And he says well there’s going to be mother break soon so it with me then. We get back to watching the start of Act 2. The break for Act 3 arrives and I move to the front to sit next to him and his bestfriend is there. He talks to his friend and he’s got a large build so his shoulder covers me slightly, so I rest my chin on his shoulder. He looks at me, then he’s on the other side of me (my right side) and Act 3 begins. Later on he lies down, so I put my head on his leg (by his knee) he sits up slightly to look at me and I say,”don’t worry I won’t do anything”, so the we both it up fully and then the play is over and my dream is over. I thought it went well, but I don’t think I have a crush on this guy. I just want us to be friends. Can anybody tell me what my dream meant? Just so I know what to do with it?

    • Your mind might be telling u that u like him. Although ur mind likes him, ur heart and urself may not. I had a similar issue and well,lets just say idk if i like him. Now i hav trust issues with my self.

  2. What if you dream about dating your enemy or a person you don’t like and kissing then ehhh ew. I had a dream that I liked my enemy and I was hugging him and he liked me back and I had 2 twins??? And they liked him and he kissed every one of them. It was weird af plus in my dream he turned cuter than real life and I want to know what it means so can you please help me?

  3. My ex dreamed that i was dating her older sister. What could this mean? (Im older than my ex by a couple years and her sister is several years older than me)

  4. I had this dream about this girl that i barely even know she goes to my school and talked to her maybe two times.First while waiting for our test results then telling mw how my ex didnt want to date me.So in the dream we went to lunch together and she grabs my hand and holds it.She is a good looking girl so i let her. Later we start having this conversation on how we would look as a couple and she says that she thinks we would look really cute together.We start to leave and as we walk through the door she ask me to be her boyfriend.Then the dream ends anybody know what this means?

  5. I’m dating this guy and I love him. He loves me too. But last night and the night before I had a dream about this other guy. And now my boyfriend says he doesn’t feel right about us.

  6. I had a dream that my boy best friend asked me out and we starting dating but in reality I don’t really like him but everyone thinks that me and him have a connection but we’re just friends

  7. I had a dream that I had a crush on one of my brothers best friends. Him and I both had feelings for each other in this dream and it was pretty weird. He is about 3 years older than me and i never thought of him in a romantic way. The dream started with me and a different one of my brothers friends getting intimate. When the guy i liked in the dream found out he got mad and he later forgave me and him and i ended up having a true romantic relationship at the end of the dream. When i woke uo all i could think about was my brothers friend. i thought about it all day as it drove me nuts. What does this mean? Do i actually have hidden feelings for this guy?

  8. I had a dream last night where I started having a romantic interest in this man that was twice my age!! I also didn’t want anyone to know about it, ive done this before in dreams (where I didn’t want anyone to know who it was I was seeing), because I always feared in the dream I’d be embarrassed to be seen around with them. I want to know what that means though, because so far every dream I’ve had where I’ll be having some sort of romantic interactions with someone, I pray to God no one finds out.

  9. I had a dream that my bestfriend T was dating my crush and she didnt feel bad at all and since that dream i cant stop thinking about and i have certain feeling he likes me but he is dating his ex HELP

  10. So my friend(boy) had a dream of dating my other friend (girl) but he has feelings for this other girl and so he told me that in his dream he was dating my friend (girl) but knows he doesn’t have feelings for her and doesn’t wanna ruin their friendship what should he do

  11. I had a dream last night about my friend and who I really like but then I think he can never love me as a partner. we’ve been having late night conversion and so I dreamt of him making love to me in a so romantic way despite the fact that we were in a public place though it was at night. what does it mean?

  12. I had a dream last night that I was dating my older brother (who is also my bio dad. I haven’t heard from him in like 6 yrs. he’s just so selfish, why are people selfish?)……..

  13. What does it mean to dream of someone you have no attraction to and don’t like very much either?
    I dreamt of a guy that goes to my highschool. (Real Life: He is a senior, I’m a sophomore. I joined a theatre club and he was my director. I didn’t really like him because of his poor time management when it came to rehearsals and cast hangouts.)
    Dream: I was getting ready to go to his house. In our relationship, we weren’t very intamite or affectionate. It felt like we were two strangers that carried the dating label. Anyways, I was getting ready to go to his house to hangout. In my dream I planned to have a conversation about our realtionship. How will we continue this relationship being that he is a senior graduating? I don’t want to hold him back from his goals. I want to be more intamite. . . We need to get to know each other better. . . Favorite movie?
    I planned to bring my sister as a wing woman in a way. I would be uncomfortable so bringing someone I know would help. When I got there, ok I don’t remember actually getting there but in my dream I imagined making it and having the talk.
    What does this mean?
    I even remember, I don’t remember what part of my dream, It almost seemed to happened simaltaneously with my previous dream explanation. I was in rhe senior guy’s house, we were dating. He made me pack my bags and help pack his brother’s too. We were all going to leave because we were running from something. I carried my backpack and his brother’s into the bathroom because I needed to use the bathroom and then Inwalked out and my dad was there looking like he just woke up and needed to use the bathroom. I said sorry like he was my ride and I was taking too long.
    Yup that Was is I have weird dreams.

  14. i dont know if this will ever receive a response. but i had a dream about a celebrity and the date was at night. i was with my friends and this guy who is the celebrity. all of a sudden i dont know if i get into a fight with anyone but i start feeling really sad and uncomfortable. i start trembling and then i run away. the guy who im supposedly dating runs after me and so does one of my closest friends. i keep running until i get to some public space and theres a store. i go inside and look between the shelves to see the guy and my friend running still after me in the direction they think i went in. after i see that i slouch down and not feel well again and people come around me and then after that in the dream i like pass out.
    i dont know what all this means and anyone who has any idea id appreciate it. because its been on my mind for a good while.

  15. what does it mean if I had a dream about dating a nonexistent brother of a guy that I hold a grudge against?? It’s been on my mind since I woke up and I’m very confused

  16. I dreamt about my cousin’s girlfriend’s younger brother. He is only a year younger then me. The dream in a way time lapsed and we were dating for about 2 years and how he actually appreciated my body type. He in the dream said multiple times how much he loved me. he showed a lot of affection. He also may I add is in a relationship. Does that have anything to do with it? I just would lie to know what this dream means and any steps I should take toward him. were actually quite close to be honest. We can talk about almost anything, should I tell him?

    • Although I try to give a literal (or almost literal) interpretation of a dream, when feasible, I believe that most of our dreams are not meant to be taken literally. Instead they contain symbols/images from the collective unconscious.

      If the dream has an almost literal interpretation, it is certainly possible that your cousin’s girlfriend’s younger brother has a romantic interest in the dreamer. If your relationship with him is sufficiently honest, you could tell him about the dream and get his reaction. You might approach the subject by discussing dreams and then ask him if he has had any interesting dreams recently. You could then tell him about this dream. However, be warned. There is a good chance that he would tell his girlfriend about your dream. This could turn out badly and be detrimental to your relationships with both of them. (BTW – there are divination techniques that some people use with success. For example, I have a Rider-Waite tarot deck that I sometimes use https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rider-Waite_tarot_deck . I am neither encouraging nor discouraging its use. I am only telling you that the cards worked for me.)

      Additionally, it is possible that he is somehow influencing your dreams. I believe that some people have lucid dreams in which they can enter the dream of another sleeping person. To some, this seems unlikely but it does happen.

      However, I believe that a symbolic interpretation of the dream is more reasonable. Using the methods of Carl Jung, I suspect that he is a symbol of the dreamer’s animus. The animus is an archetype from the depths of the unconscious. The animus is always a man and is only found in the dreams of women. He has the potential of going through four stages of development. (Most women do not reach the later stages. If reached, its attainment could take many years.) Identifying his stage can be a little tricky. It sounds like he is at the second stage of development where the animus appears as romantic lover or a man of action. For more information on analytical psychology and the animus, see https://monoskop.org/images/9/97/Von_Franz_Luise_Marie_Jung_Gustav_Carl_Man_and_His_Symbols_1988.pdf especially page 189 through 194.

      And FYI, one of the best ways that we can get more helpful dreams is by listening to them and trying to understand what they mean.

      Hope this helps. Be sure to get back with me if you have any questions or comments.

  17. I had a dream of dating a friend who I knew for several years.We just got closed recently and hang out for only 1 time.I do not have any feelings for him but this is my 2nd time dreaming of him.It was just a casual date with him,I look deep into him and I can feel the feelings I was in love in that dream.omg I just don’t know.I can’t trust myself.The 1st time was he kissing me multiple times.what is this mean anyoneeeee?

  18. hi so i had a dream wherein it seemed like i was dating one of my friends (we’re around 60/100 close irl i guess) – it was rumored that this girl i was ‘dating’ in my dream has a crush on me irl as well. and then there was this girl whom i knew but not really a friend that said she had a crush on me. it was pretty weird since irl she’s like a batch representative for us and i’m sure she has other people chasing her. usually, i won’t really go in depth on this kind of dream but my problem here is that i’m actually in a relationship right now and it bothers me that i had such dream like this. plus the fact that this is the first vivid dream i’ve had in a while. it’s been bothering me almost all day, please help?

  19. Okay, so I’ve had a dream where a boy from my school asked me out and I rejected him. But I don’t like him nor do I talk to him but we have a few classes together. I’m not sure what he thinks of me. Does anyone possibly know what this means?

  20. I had 3 dreams about relationships in a short time, first, I was in a relationship with my female friend I haven’t seen in over 2 years, second was in relationship with my ex I haven’t seen in 16 years & third I was dating the supermodel Adriana Lima, I’m single by the way

  21. When a man says “I have ‘mommy issues'” what is that code for? Granted, it’s suggested behind the scenes in female circles to run from these types but, actually, I’ve never heard more about it beyond the notion to avoid these types.
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  23. I need help, me and my guy best friend have been having romantic dreams about each other that take place in the future. The thing is, I have a boyfriend and I love him. I know I do. I convinced myself I don’t like or love my best friend in that way. But these dreams we are are both having, is it a sign? That he will go to the military (which is his dream) and I will be his wife? Will it be someday or is it just a coincidence? Am I hiding my true feelings and I’m just being in denial?

  24. I was in a fair ground, dating a popular kid at my school who I had kissed at a number of points (I barely know the popular kid), then I went into a black castle and realized something was off, and went to tell my friends so we could investigate (there was also a lot of stairs). My friends became locked in the castle watching movies, as school bells sometime ring, one of my friends from school was about to kiss me (I was sitting next to him) then he just suddenly disappeared, then I turned to the right and saw the classroom which was full of kids who had piles and piles of dust on them (the whole classroom appeared dusty) and I saw the old lady walk to the front, I also realized the kids were meant to be dead. I begin to fly around trying to hide from the old lady which I almost succeeded in, but then Harry Potter popped up, and he begins to tell me, “– I’m so glad to have found you hun, I missed my baby girl so much,” But it was him in his first year he was also trying to explain something “before time ran out” but then I shot out and light began to shoot from me, and it made the building crumble, the living people being freed and the dead people finally being rested. Me and the popular kid almost have sex- then I get transferred to a zombie apocalypse in the fair grounds, I am the leader, and I’m trying to convert people back to normal by washing them in the water surrounding the place (they got turned back to normal in the water, but they also couldn’t swim so I sort of while flying bathed them) then I woke up.

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  26. I’ve had two dreams about a close friend of mine. In the first dream we started dating and I remember feeling happy about being able to be physically near him. In the second dream we weren’t dating, but we shared a first kiss. We are close friends and talk every day, whether it be in person or over the phone – currently we’re on a phone call and he’s fallen asleep and I feel I should add that even when the other has fallen asleep we stay on the line. I care for him very much as a friend, but lately I find myself talking to him more than my own boyfriend. Can someone help? Does this mean my subconscious is attracted to him more than my own boyfriend? I would never date this friend due to our age difference (three years apart, but we’re in high school so it’s 15/18 year old), but I’m worried what this means about how I feel about my relationship with my boyfriend. I’m not looking for relationship advice, just dream interpretation.

  27. I had a dream this morning where I was going on my first date (I have never been on a date, in fact I have only ever asked one girl out and she told me no.) I was in Wal-Mart (We have Wal-Mart in the small town that we live in, but this one was laid out much differently,) shopping for salsa and I was looking for one of the large glass bottles. I could only find small bottles on an end-cap, so I saw that there was an employee a few feet behind me on the left hand side so I turned around and asked her if they had any big bottles. She looked up at me (she was down on her knees unpacking a box,) and told me that they didn’t and that she was sorry. I said that it was fine (not in a mean or impatient way, in a kind way ‘no worries’ way,) said ‘Thank you’ and shook her hand, then as I went to turn around and walk away she stood up and said ‘Hey, would you like to get a something to eat sometime?’ with an endearing nervousness. Let me just explain that as soon as this girl (she appeared to be about my age, I am a 19 year old male) stood up I realized that outside of her kind, helpful demeanor, she was absolutely gorgeous. I immediately replied ‘Yeah, that sounds nice. Um, we should probably trade numbers, ‘and with that we each wrote our phone numbers on a small slip of paper and traded them. Afterwards I said ‘I’m going to tell you the truth and say that I don’t have a car, so it’ll probably be my Mom dropping me off.’ She said that that would be fine and I turned around to grab one of the small bottles and walk away when she said ‘See you later.’ I looked back at her and said it back to her. We both smiled at each other and I left with my small bottle. I briefly woke up and then I dozed back off and fell back into the same dream. I was asking my Mom (We are very close, ) if she would give me a ride to a local restaurant and she said that she would (evidently we had already agreed on the place and the time of 9:00pm for the date,) I was then texting the girl (whose name, I believe, was either Patty or Petty) that my Mom had yes to giving me a ride. To which she replied that she couldn’t make it because she was having to work late, but we could do it the next night. I replied that my Grandmother had an appointment early the next morning (my Grandmother is having a lot of medical issues and thusly appointments in real life right now,) and so that wouldn’t work, so then she said that she could just come by after work. I replied ‘Sure!’ and I started putting on my best clothes. Then I saw her up at the gate to our driveway and just as I opened our front door and started to walking out of it, I woke up.

    Ideas?

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